Anger comes from thwarted expectations, and is a sign of
inappropriate boundaries.

Expectations come in two flavors:
        realistic
        unrealistic
Producing two kinds of anger
        righteous
        unreasonable
Most reasonable and realistic expectations of others are those
created through contract/agreement. It is reasonable to expect
that when someone exits a previous agreement, they will so
inform you, that you may change your expectations.

Of course the highest form of living is without expectations...
then there is no cause for anger. However...

There are two predominant tought forms of expression of life
        Do what you are capable of regardless how it hurts others (evil)
        Do what you choose without harming others by violating their
free-will choice.

Those of us who live in the light have the expectation of not
having our free-will violated by others, and thus live in
harmony with others of the light but find ourselves angry when
forces of evil use force upon us... yielding righteous anger.

The simplest way of handling appropriate anger is to readjust
one's boundaries to separate from those who abuse.

Yet there is a higher level... exiting via transcendence the
light vs dark game. For every dichotomy there is a transcendent
position which accepts the whole dichotomy. Thus even the
light-dark game can be seen to be constructed to facilitate
growth of consciousness. From this position, what is there to be
angry at? Providing you can escape the claws of the beast.
Thus... be in the world but not of the world. Being ascended
above dichotomy.

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Tue Nov 20 20:58:50 HST 2007
by Angela Kahealani