Dealing with death of a loved one: Any information you need would best come from THE source. I can help with akashic records information for you. Any thought/feeling/intent you have to communicate to the departed may be directly perceived by them, just call them by full name and communicate to them, silently or out loud. Any karma-non-forgiveness on their part is their problem. Any karma-non-forgiveness you have of them is your problem, which you can work on or we can work on together without contacting the other. Any attachment you have to the departed we can clear without contacting the other. Basically, accept, forgive, release the departed, and live here now in your own body. Difficulties in that process are mostly ego-based, and many times I will communicate w/ the departed to facilitate that process, but only to a limited degree so as not to enable holding-on to what is gone. More often there may be karma or contracts to heal/release between a client and their deceased, which is far more productive to focus on. Again, not necessary to contact the deceased to do this. Sometines the departed will offer a message (what they failed to communicate before leaving) or some guidance (their perspective on what might be beneficial for you). I would prefer to communicate gudiance from your own higher self than from another, but it's your choice from whom you seek guidance. Personally, I trust my own higher self. Call any being by name... remember by definition, the forces of light respect your free-will choice and will not interfere unless you ask their help, so prayer or invocation is required... do it yourself or I can help. Unless you've invoked one or more of these to be with you constantly, unsolicted "guidance" you receive may be from a dark entity. I teach things like this in my classes (tapes available) and incorporate them in my healing/reading sessions. Ultimately, it all comes down to your choice. Any more questions, please call, it takes longer to answer by typing than by speaking. No, I did not look psychicly to answer your question, which I believe is what you had asked me to do in your email. If you want psychic answers, call me to read for you. I charge by the minute, so even a quick question like this is affordable. -- All rights reserved, Copyright 1998, by Angela Kahealani, Independent Sovereign.