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Gender Freedom

There is some confusion between Gender and Sexual Orientation. Sex is what's between your legs (male - female). Sexual Freedom allows not only the polarities but also the androgyny between the extremes. Gender is your personality and social role (masculine - feminine). Gender Freedom allows not only the stereotypical roles but also all the grays between. Sexual orientation is your preferences in mating, which depending on the person may be a true sexual orientation or attraction/aversion to others' genital sex or it may be an attraction/aversion to others genderal expression (masculine/feminine).

We have been conditioned by an anti-normal system of polarized extremes with the middle ground being socially or religiously prohibited. The overall move to freedom is to allow all the grays between black and white as both normal and healthy. Health comes from being who you are, not what others (individuals) or society (groups) tell you you should be. We have been served well in one sense by the polarized system, it has enhanced the kind of sexuality which leads to the creation of offspring... in fact it has worked so successfully that the planet is now on the brink of eco-collapse due to the extreme overpopulation by the infestation of the species of humans. Because sexuality performs the dual role of leading to offspring and creating loving bonds and pleasure between humans, we see now that we would be insane to continue as in the past. The alternative is to decouple reproduction from bonding and pleasure, encouraging more reproductionless sexuality. Thus an increase in homosexuality or bisexuality, and the move to androgyny and gender-blurring.

The essential nature of who we are is that we are spirits incarnate in human bodies, we are not our bodies. Unless your beliefs reject reincarnation, then you will quickly see that we incarnate in both kinds of bodies, so that who we are as spirit is truly androgynous. And yet when we incarnate we tend to wind up with a polarized body either male or female, while our personality may be androgynous or even opposite in gender as it expresses our spiritual nature.

Social fulfullment and happiness can only come from fulfilled and happy individuals, and that happiness is served by private freedom, in this case, to be the gender(s) of your choice in the moment, and to be friends with and mate with the gender(s) and sex(es) of your choice.

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