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Each of us has a personal reality, the summation of our choices. Some choices are frozen in time, or are consistently and repeatedly chosen from free will, and are known as pictures or beliefs. Groups of those frozen choices may be linked together, and are known as programming. Each spirit, each soul, each mind, each astral body, and the DNA, RNA, and mycoplasma of each physical body's cells holds some portion of these. This could be referred to as our essence, or our reality, our personal reality.
From that place, we connect with others, either individually, as e.g. a friendship between us, or in larger groups, which taken to the extreme is known as the collective reality. All is interrelated, all interacts, we have impact on each other, and that impact is either loving or hurtful... the synergy of connecting reinforces and amplifies where there is agreement of will/choice, and mutually destroys each individual reality where they disagree. We know this in Berkeley Psychic Institute terms as having boundaries or not. A fundamental principle of B.P.I. is that when you find that another reality impacts negatively on your own, that the appropriate response of harmlessness is to create boundaries of separation, so that we may each retain our personal reality unimpeded by impact from conflicting realities, that our will prevail in our personal space, a personal space made sufficiently small and disconnected from other realities that it can exist without conflict. We know that there will be hurt whenever a disagreement is not resolved by making boundaries.
A relationship is hurtful when it includes agendae in conflict with the other's will. Conflicting beliefs and choices prevent sharing a reality because the personal realities are mutually destructive of each other. It is far more loving to walk away than to disrespect the other's reality, choices, beliefs, rather than insisting the other change so that we may share a reality.
All association with dichotomy makes us susceptible to deception and manipulation. Ascension is Transcension, is rising above all attachments, all polarities in any dichotomy, all must be released. Any pairing of individuals results in the generation of dichotomy. I have observed that those who are very conscious have been pitted against each other, not saying either is right or wrong, but that both get manipulated to become engaged in enemy polarity with each other. This is a manipulation by the control matrix, to keep the masses ignorant, to stop the messiahs of truth, to dumb down consciousness, and most of all to keep hidden the truth of us being run by the Matrix. We are near the window of opportunity, the point of empowerment, we are accellerating into zeropoint at the center of the spiral. We have e-voluted into individuality, then upon completion of that spiral began the inward spiral back to zero point oneness with the void. The 1 / 3 - 2 / 3 splits within us of trinity engaged with dichotomy 1 / 2 - 1 / 2 produces the desire to mate with the opposite polarity to achieve the balance lost in the evolution into individuality. All pairings, any engagement with dichotomy, out of neutrality, pulls us out of the wholeness of balance we all seek, doing our best to substitute for the wholeness we came from. In returing without being lost, to be saved, we must have neutrality / balance, meaning releasing of all polarity / dichotomy attachments / focus in the world / in the energy realms. The deceivers have amplified this to push us to separate fully, or to merge fully, yet synergy is from a halfway point. Some major players are destroying themselves and each other with lawsuits, being bled to death by lawyer fees. I will not fight, instead I separate and release. It is not a matter of blame, it is a matter of recognizing the results and chosing what to do with them. Synergy of cooperation serves us very well. The Matrix paradigm is not so far off... the Into the Fire Babylon 5: "We will not fight for or against either side (Shadows vs Vorlons), we are neutral, it's not our fight." the whole engagement in dichotomy is designed to keep us from noticing that being on either side, the hero or the villain, keeps us in the control system. Our "reality" Matrix has been programmed to make us require this conflict to survive well here... the better you do, the more power you develop here, the more it can control you.
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