I'm only willing to use "protection" against pregnancy. If I cannot have sexual relations with a partner , without having to "protect" against them, then the message is very simple and very clear... I don't belong having sex with them. If there is not total congruence in appropriateness of merging with them, physically, emotionally, mentally, aetherically, then it is not appropriate to connect sexually. Applying Tantric principles, when you connect sexually, unless it is a totally empty physical act of tab A in slot B with no real connection, in which case it is destructive by reinforcing alienation and estrangment, disconnection within self from Self, then it is in fact a merging in all dimensions, not only of the physical bodies and their diseases, but of the emotions, including the subconscious repressed ones, of mental patternings, and of the spiritual energy bodies, including spiritual beliefs and karma which transcend lifetimes... so you not only "have sex with them and all their partners" as is often spoken in the "safe sex" communities, but you are in fact merging with who they are and their blessings and dysfunctions from multiple lifetimes. Truly "safe sex" is sex which is not estranged from love. To have sex without making a heart chakra connection is to reinforce a split within oneself between the lower chakras related to physical sex, and the heart chakra which relates to affinity and appropriateness. If your heart is saying "this is inappropriate" and you go ahead and make a lower chakra sexual connection "I'm too full of lust to care what's appropriate" you are continuing to further damage yourself by creating further estrangement between your chakras, and if you are "sexing" in this self-estranged way, you are reinforcing estrangement in sexual relations .... and this is truly the actual creation of sexual dis-ease.
AIDS is one manifestation (symptom) of a dysfunctioning immune system. The immune system's job is to separate "me" from "not me"... to accept the biology of self (failure to do so is called "autoimmune 'dis-ease'", and to reject not-self (failure to do so is called "infection"). The biological function we call the immune system is governed by the heart chakra, which is the endocrine gland known as the Thymus, which sits right on top of the heart organ. This chakra is the center of the seat of the soul, the anchor point of soul in body, and balances the lower chakra realities of pure body with the upper chakra realities of pure spirit. It is the place we know "who am I" and "what is appropriate for me". The answers it gives are the only ones which work for both spirit and body. It is the center of self affinity, the center of affinity with others. When one ignores the truth of what is appropriate for the soul, one creates dis-ease within one's self. No mating can be healthy which includes one or more partners who are not healthy within themself. The single biggest factor in sexual ease (no dis-ease) is that each participating individual be at-ease with themself, and with their participation in whatever mating they participate in. Not honoring one's appropriate heart chakra guidance of loving, i.e. engaging in sex without love, is the cause of sexual disease. Practicing what is overtly called "safe sex" is in fact a lie... because the subconscious knows that the actual facts are that you are attempting to merge at the same time you are refusing to merge, that you are in fact living in fear, acting inappropriately, and bottom line you believe the other is toxic. Both fear and merging with toxicity are self destructive. Bottom Line: if you can't sex without the condom for fear of disease, you are at disease, and are creating disease, and it will eventually manifest.
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