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Sexual Spirituality

Every aspect of life-affirming and life-creating physical form is filled with divinity, including the human body and every aspect of its sexuality. That which is truly obscene is that which negates the divinity and sanctity of human life. Sex is beautiful, in all its forms. Every human body is divine. Only the forces of darkness could label the divine human form, or its procreation or recreation, as obscene or profane, or unfit for children.

Enlightenment and healing are arriving to planet earth on the yin ray of light; it is the Goddess in both men and women which will heal us all. Denial of the Goddess by Men, and the collusion in Self Denial by Women, is the major planetary disease. Our souls ache to free the imprisoned adult female Goddess. Mom and Apple Pie is all about Crones and Virgins... it lacks the authenticity and power of the Priestess and the Queen. Awaken the women of the world. Give-up the spoils of war brought home by the soldier boys. Perhaps a less comfortable lifestyle, but a peaceful one globally. Make Love Not War! Birth control is an alternative to death control (disease and war)).

"I taught young men to drop fire on women and children, but they were not allowed to write the word 'fuck' on their aircraft because the army considered that to be obscene."
-- Colonel Kurtz, Apocalypse Now

Some people believe you can either have a body or a spirit, but not both. Others believe you can be your full divinity only by being a being in a body. Some people separate some parts of God which comprise them from other parts of God which comprise them and label some of them Good and some of them Evil. Labels, having nice sticky backings, can be moved from one thing to another.

• You decide whether you choose to label the body good or evil.
• You decide whether you choose to label the spirit good or evil.
• You decide whether you choose to participate in a religion, which either agrees or disagrees with your truth.
• You decide whether any particular dogma is more true or divine than another.
• You decide whether to accept it in the whole or only what feels true for you.

A religion is just a set of choices about spirit and its' relationship to body. Some of those choices are arrogant and presume to dictate for all, other choices are tolerant of others who choose differently. You decide how to love yourself, either unconditionally, or the way others teach you to withhold your love in response to their threat to withhold theirs (judge you). The fundamental truths shared by all the world religions are very simple, and the local variations of culture prescribe and proscribe arbitrary things.

The same kundalini energy awakened through sexuality awakens the higher centers of perception (chakras) which lead to spiritual vision. You decide whether to give your power to a church or an entity or a human. You decide to claim your spiritual power back from those parasitic entities, by invoking the power of choice... use your heart's discernment.

While there are few major planetary religions surviving with great strength today, (that have not been viciously persecuted by the dominant patriarchal warrior religions), which keep the yin and yang principles in balance, and equally few which are devoted to the feminine form of God(dess), it may be said that all have suffered scandal and yet there is a pure divine essence at the core of each. Until Goddess religions and or the Goddess principle within each religion. now more unbalanced toward the yang energy. are emphasized back to par with the masculine principle dominant on the planet, there will be suffering which we create for ourselves by our choices of belief.

This is a dysfunction of many patriarchal churches, a thinly veiled subjugation of women and the feminine aspect of the divine, which is formless and without sexual differentiation of a rigid nature as experienced by current adam-kadmon bodies (humans) in Earth reality. Liberate the goddess, the unknown, the creative and intuitive. Balance. Peace. Cocreation. Love. Love. Love.

My recommendation is to cultivate lotus flowers: If your current religion is hostile to the wholistic you, separate from their influence and connect with God rather than with church, and in that connection find your truth. Discern what it is you have sought which has been of benefit to you by participating with your church, and recreate that for yourself in the privacy of your own home. Explore combining your religion with your sexuality in private, and allow yourself to know that your body truth is what it is, do not fight it or judge it. Your spiritual truth is what it is, it is the source of your life, for it is sourced from God, so you must to live be your essence, fiercely confronting any entity with or without a body who would pervert you into being how they chose you to be rather than you being, living, expressing, doing, the unique God natured life you are, manifest through the vehicle of the body. Celebrate the divinity that you are, in every aspect of your life, your love, your breath, your sex, your heart, your creativity, your perception, your worship of the divine which permeates and creates all, and the divine intelligence which created this all.

Harmlessness... do not hurt others. Be agendaless with others, accepting them as they are, doing what they do, and love them into greater wholeness and integrity with their divine spark essence. You may not lie, manipulate, or control without hurting another.

Botticelli's painting captures the birth of Venus from the sea as a result of Venus having been conceived when the Titan Cronus castrated his father, the god Uranus, and cast the severed genitals into the sea, thus fertilizing it. This ancient Greco/Roman myth tells us something of the collective consciousness about female spirituality and sexuality as perceived by men. Clearly she's here presented as art, probably spiritual art. She has not yet discovered herself in adult empowerment and enlightenment, she is still a child. She may have escaped childhood unscathed of soul murder by parents intent on defining their child through which to live vicariously, and in this case has by being born fully pubescent and innocent instantly from the sea's transformation of the generative principle of the testes sacrificed to the sea. Most of us have to spend years of therapy undoing the damage of our birth parents, culture, religion, government, lineage, etc. before we arrive at this pure state of undefined and undirected (pure potential) adult free-will choice free dominion as a fully separate individual. Our divine goddess Venus is washed ashore ocean fresh pure and unbruised by childhood due to her miraculous divine creation birth. Thus her myth speaks to the birth of the soul, the spiritually conscious living eternal soul consciousness, that which exists eternally and is pure relative to the earthly experience. It always exists, so what is really born is our consciousness of this aspect of self out of the innocence of ignorance of that Self. Spiritual awakening is truly the beginning of adulthood. Some arrive out of mothers' womb with total knowing. Others discover it only late in life or not this time around on the reincarnation wheel. Legal adulthood responsibility for the karma created through the body occurrs per law according to the age of the body, irrespective the maturity of the consciousness/personality/ego/soul/spirit operating that body. The pure Venus Goddess consciousness is the most divine and most important thing which could be taught, gifted, encouraged, supported, or even only tolerated by all of us, whether she looks like she wandered out of a temple or a whorehouse... it is the quality of heart and soul with which we connect to others, it is our quality of loving others, which has divine value, regardless its' appearant form in the world of illusory forms called the physical.

Our Penthouse Pet* mirrors the pose of Venus in the clamshell in Botticelli's Birth of Venus. While Venus is showing more, the Penthouse Pet is considered more "adult" or "racier" in extant body-negating dysfunctional cultures, religions, corporate codes, etc. In otherwords, by donning the sexual-objectification lust-idol icons the Penthouse Pet taps into the overtly denied subconscious powerful sexual consciousness of all of humanity charged onto the icons of the forbidden, giving her the power of animal magnetism while the pure innocent naked Venus is unthreatening as latent sexuality unaroused yet by maturity. The Penthouse Pet fully owns her adult sexual power, while The Birth of Venus shows us a virginal innocent ignorant of adulthood. So, our visual comparison and contrast context immediately shows us the dichotomies which need holistic healing in our collective human consciousness about sexuality if we fail to see the perfect divinity in both versions. This is a dichotomy of the traditional trichotomy of Virgin-Girl Priestess-Woman Crone-Kupuna, the three major ages of woman. There is inherant in most social tradition a recognition that humanity has lost its full connection with the divine source, and that that chronic disease usually progresses with age (is in fact the cause of aging). Thus the youth is inherantly more divine, less tainted, and certainly not yet addressing, or therefore tainted by, collective social denial of the sexuality of youth, and awareness of temptations of adult empowerment. Focus upon youth is usually a denial of or avoidance of adult issues. Focus on aging is usually distraction from fear of death. Living in the here and now in full adult empowerment is what I would suggest is the healthiest model of spirit incarnate in human form. Releasing our fear of sex and power in their correct use harmlessly to others, enables a healthy love life which is an excellent foundation for expressing aloha to all other living beings. Both the physical and the spiritual are divine and inextricably interwoven and the whole evolves together. Yes, even in all its various expressions... all is divine manifest in infinitude, yet that absolute sovereign freedom and power has no right of harmfulness to others, deprivation of their free will choice about their own lives. Infinite power and freedom for the self in the dominion of self, but limited to agreement in shared cocreated reality. Space is important, for it provides individual empowerment and rest from conflict. We all need our independence and space to be alone, to be allone, to be one with all, or to let the one be all, or to open up the door and let all become one in a huge group hug. Clearly she's here presented as sexual adult, the true meaning of the word virgin, one who chooses for herself her own mating partner(s) and practice(s), one who is not married, not possessed... yes... (gasp) a free woman, one with choice and power and freedom = free dominion, one who by that freedom is virginal, untainted by being owned by another, untainted by being forced to prostitute self in the service of another's ego. Yes, consider that many "wives" are more " prostitutes " in selling-out their soul-truth to be secure in a marriage, than are many "whores" who may in fact transact sex for money in a manner of integrity and truth which does not " prostitute " their self at all. Selling sex for money does not necesitate prostitution = pollution = nonintegrity. Many prostitute themselves for money without ever selling sex. To distinguish, ask yourself this question: "If I had more money than I could count or spend, and after I've shopped until I've dropped and have everything I could possibly want, what would I do with my life just for fun?" If you're now doing that for a living you're not a prostitute . Be who you are and do what you love to do and enjoy yourself playing at what you love to do so well that you get well paid for it because others will love it too if you fill it with your love and joy of life and being and doing.

Making babies is the only game in town. The dark side (as usual) wants to be in control of things rather than letting them flow under the guidance of spirit in the moment. Most social and religious mating and breeding games, customs, proscriptions, and prescriptions, are founded in control of either the process of, or the outcome of, making babies. Survive and Reproduce is the totality of the body agenda. All other agendas come from spirit. Spirit is eternal, reincarnates, knows that moving from one body to another is no big deal. Body is mortal, seeks to survive, and knowing its' own mortality, seeks immortality via lineage. Spirit creates bodies to experience. Does not each incarnate soul deserve full freedom in its' incarnation in a body? Is there a right of lineage to transcend that? Some so believe. I believe that is harmful, and negates growth, miracles, and evolution.

Aside from the private agendas and family lineage agendas, the socio-political powers of the locality will, in complete inversion of their proper role of serving the people, often attempt to enslave the populace to their agendas. These may be justified (all lies) as being morally, socially, politically, militarily, or even "spiritually" necessary. It's all lies and illusion. Because God gave each spirit freedom, that right of freedom comes with the spirit into the body, and no other body may lay claim to it for any agenda, not parental, not political, not religious. It is wrong to deprive children of the rights the same individual would have as an adult. Likewise it is wrong to deprive children of responsibility for their actions. Their growth and maturity is greatly delayed by the adults believing in the disability of their children whom they wish to keep further enslaved to their agendas.

Further emphasis upon ancestors controlling their lineage comes from spirits' failure to recognize their eternal life separate from the body and attempting to build immortality for the body through lineage, through controlling and defining the grandchildren. Always abusive. Period. Every attempt to define another is attempted soul murder. No relationship, be it parental or religious or governmental truly confers the right to define or control another being. Extant social and religious and political and legal custom to the contrary is all purely evidence of dysfunctions needing to be healed in our collective beliefs.

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