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Victimhood versus Love

The classical spiritual question asked by Papaji and Gangaji, is: "Who are you?". Others may ask: "Who and What are you?". Yet, from the western perspective of "The Matrix" trilogy, it's: "Why do you?". These are the yin and yang, the being and the doing, of life. Gangaji and Papaji would respond: "I Am That"... each and every "That". Agent Smith would state: "It is purpose that drives us [to act]." The Architect would squash all unpredictable free-will-choice, whereas we Pleiadians would defend each spirit's right of free will choice. We are fundamentally, raw consciousness itself, which witnesses, and which has the capacity of will, and the sovereign right of free dominion.

The atheist religion of "Western Science" inverts spiritual truth, denies the "reality" of the energy realm from which the physical is sourced, and declares that the physical is "real", and all else to be illusion. Eastern religion focuses upon the eternal energy consciousness, and says the physical is illusion, because it is temporal. One says the answer to all problems is medication, the other, meditation. I work professionally as a diagnostician, and as a healer, but both of those activities, determining cause of "what is wrong", and correcting towards a model of health, ultimately occur in the context of the value system of the individual I am facilitating, just as my role of teacher seeks to enlighten and empower towards a spirits own goals.

For most human bodies, about 85%, life is lived from the ego, and is oriented to the lower chakras, and thereby relationships by them are fundamentally about mutual needs fulfillment, and for these, the very abused word "love" usually means reliable dependence, that "I love you" means "I like being able to depend on you for my needs". "You're my Best Friend Forever" means you don't disagree with me.

For about 15% of human incarnations, consciousness is raised to the heart chakra level, soul consciousness is present, and relating actually involves real love, a giving for the benefit of the other, without expectation of return. At lower levels, "love given" is not actually given as a gift, but is more accurately a manipulation, motivated by an expectation of reciprocity, therefore unclean. At heart level it's always about soul appropriateness, and the true self's connection with true source, accepting no substitutes for a direct connection from source, and accepting no connections from others who wish to use us as their source, thereby we circumvent both parasitism and idolatry.

There are two modalities of existence; those being sovereignty, where one is 100% responsible as the creator of their reality, and dependence, also known as victimhood. The primary reason that there are any beings not operating in sovereignty, is that they have chosen to be dependent, and in order to manifest their will, i.e. to enslave those upon whom they've chosen to be dependent, they must either overtly control the other and the relationship (dominance), or they must convince the other(s) to choose to allow the dependence. That was carefully worded to explicate the bidirectionality of both dependence and victimhood; "every victim is a victimizer", and we can also see that the one depended upon usually "needs to be needed". The causal mechanisms and motivations behind all of this are briefly addressed here.

As a completely private individual unplugged from "The Matrix" / Mammon, and observing that it is the very rarest and smallest of minorities, I have deeply contemplated why it is that the vast majority knowingly choose to live lies rather than truth, and "victimhood" vs. sovereignty. Knowing that all of reality, whether private individual, or cocreated shared collective reality, is continually created from belief, and all beliefs are merely frozen choices we have not yet rechosen, the only possible conclusion is that, all is as it is, because someone or group has chosen it to so be, and that is always motivated by their desire; in other words, the people who have claimed their creative powers, desire things as they are, and even those who pretend to be "victims" of things as they are, have chosen their "victimhood".

Every choice, and every reality, is as it is, because it delivers some benefit to the one who has chosen it. Ultimately there is no true "victimhood", and all claims of "victimhood" are lies, by "victimizers" using their "victimhood" to "victimize" the people around them, to manipulate them into a form of relationship where they can parasite on the life force energy of those they seduce into "buying into" their lies of "victimhood".

Most are unwilling to admit to themselves the nature and extent of their actual intent to, and practice of, victimizing others, so, they certainly aren't ready to admit it to others, or the victims. Yet, ultimately that entire game would lose its appeal, if and only if, the victimizer would first terminate their self victimization, that which comes from having disclaimed their own godly powers of dominion, that then must be made up for by abusing the power of others.

Only those operating in their sovereign dominion can be harmless to others, all others are busy hurting each other and themselves. Where there is hurt, there is no possibility of love. Love can only exist as the nature of relating, between sovereign independent beings acting appropriately to their nature, from a place of self sufficiency, founded on harmlessness, with respect for the absolute right of free will choice of each entity, with appropriate boundaries and separations to alleviate all conflicts of will, and then the sharing may be in positive synergy.

I am an independent sovereign entity, who neither gives nor receives allegiance to / from others, and thereby retain my neutrality, to be able to step outside all external influence, and to honor all wills. I seek to play in sovereign dominion cocreating with others, for either the sheer joy of play and cocreation, or to heal our reality towards this model of non interference, and harmlessness, the very foundations necessary to build a shared space of actual "love".

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